knowing what you need when you need it
fulfilling those needs
not doing things you don't need that you might do out of peer pressure
recognizing and helping to fulfill the needs of others
but if those needs are in conflict with your own?
putting others' needs before your own
but what about necessary competition, like work placement?
are there some needs that cannot be compromised?
"i will do anything for you save...?"
then what are those needs/values?